You and I don’t lie, if you define ‘lying’ as ‘intentionally telling an untruth.’ How does it feel, though, when you’ve said something would happen, and then, it doesn’t? It’s just something that happens, right? Time and the unforeseen and all that. That’s hard for me. When I tell a client or a friend ‘this [...]
Really? Honesty can be brutal? It is my experience that those who endorse brutal honesty are hoping we’ll all become just as rude as they are, so they don’t stand out so much. After all, why should they have to learn manners just to fit in with all of us, what, gently honest people? Nonsense. [...]
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Posted 30 March 2010
† Joel D Canfield
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