When a question begs the obvious and expected answer, we're not really asking a question; we're making a disguised statement or request or demand. Wording the demand as a question, with the lilting raised voice at the end and a smile on our face, does not transmogrify it into an innocent act.
Words do a poor job of hiding our true intentions. Whether it's disdain or love, what you feel or believe about your listener will leak into your communication. No; really. It will.
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